Safdar Sahar.
Retreats · 5-Day
5-Day Clear Sky

Where practice becomes habit.

Your brain builds roads where you walk most often. Five days gives it time to build a new one. Day by day you move from breath, to body, to the mind and its feelings, and on the fourth day you meet a day of deep silence with nothing to do but be. You leave not only calmer, but with a practice that knows its way home.

Days
5 days
Stay
4 nights
Silence
Silence from the first night, deepest on day four
Best for
For those who have sat before

The journey.

Day 1

Arrive and settle

Meet the group, walk the grounds, sit at sunset. The silence begins by the fire.

Day 2

Breath and body

How the body holds stress. Deep breathing, a body scan, music in silence.

Day 3

Mind and feelings

Reaction and response: how a feeling takes over, and how to stay with it without the story.

Day 4

A day of deep silence

Long sittings, a first taste of “who am I?”, an afternoon alone in nature, and a night under the stars.

Day 5

Gathering it up

The science of habit: 21 and 90 days. Gratitude, a letter to yourself, and the way home.

How a day feels.

Mornings begin outside at sunrise, then movement, breakfast and a small task done with full attention. The science hour gives the day its meaning; the guided meditation lets you feel it. Afternoons are for rest, walking and sitting alone. Your questions are answered every evening, and every evening ends differently: a story, music, the fire, the stars.

What you’ll do

The science hourA talk by Safdar Sahar on the day’s theme: what happens in your brain, body and hormones, in plain Urdu.
Guided meditationLed live, in Urdu, around the theme of the day.
Breath practiceSimple counted breathing that calms the nervous system.
Morning movementGentle yoga and stretching with Arooza Mattia, so the body is ready to sit.
Meditative walksSlow, silent walking, sometimes barefoot on the grass.
Mindful mealsThe first minutes of every meal in silence. Taste, slowly.
Body scanMoving attention from head to toe, finding where stress hides.
Silent sittingsShort at first, longer with the days. Just you, sitting with yourself.
DialogueYour questions, answered by Safdar Sahar, every day.
JournalingOne question a day in your retreat notebook.
Sharing circleOn the first and last day. Everyone speaks, nobody advises.
Sunrise and sunset sittingsOutside, as the day opens and closes.
Mindful workA small task done with full attention: watering plants, sweeping a porch. Presence you can take home.
Evening gatheringsA different evening each night: a story, music in silence, the fire, the stars.
A letter to yourselfWritten on the last day, sent back to you three months later.
A day of deep silenceA whole day with nothing to do but be.
Time alone in natureAn afternoon in your own corner of the place.
Who am I?Turning attention back on the one who is watching.

For you if

  • You have done a retreat or a course before
  • You want meditation to stay in your life
  • Anger, worry or old habits keep returning
  • You can give five days

Not for you if

  • You have never sat quietly at all: start with 1 or 3 days

Included

Stay · All meals and herbal tea · Every session · A welcome kit (retreat notebook, pen, water bottle) · 21 days of WhatsApp practice after you leave · A monthly online sitting with past participants

Silence and the few rules

Phones are handed in on arrival. Be in the hall before the bell. Keep the colour of the day. No intoxicants. Please do not pick or eat anything growing at the place. If anything feels wrong, write a note or come to the reception.

Green

Talk freely. The first day, the last day, the circles.

Yellow

Quiet, but a soft word when you need something.

White

Full silence. Even a nod can wait.

In every colour you can ask the teacher your questions in the daily dialogue, or write a note. Help is always one step away.

What to bring

Please bring your own personal things. We provide the stay, the food and everything for the practice.

Always

  • Loose, comfortable clothes for sitting and yoga
  • Comfortable shoes and slippers
  • Your own medicines, with a note of the doses
  • Toothbrush, toiletries and a towel
  • A small torch for the paths at night
  • A yoga mat or your own cushion, if you have one

Winter

  • A warm shawl or blanket wrap for the sittings
  • A jacket or sweater
  • Warm socks and a cap
  • Thermal innerwear for the early mornings
  • Lip balm and moisturiser
  • A hot-water bottle, if you feel the cold

Summer

  • Light cotton clothes
  • A cap or hat
  • Sunscreen
  • Insect repellent
  • A small hand towel
  • Sunglasses for the outdoor sittings

Leave at home

  • Books and laptops
  • Valuables and jewellery
  • Anything you will miss your phone for

Health notice

Meditation is not medical or psychological treatment. If you live with a serious physical or mental health condition, are pregnant, or take regular medicine, please talk to your doctor before booking and tell us on the health form. Do not stop any medicine for the retreat. Read the full notice

After you leave

For 21 days you get a short practice on WhatsApp each morning. Once a month you can sit online with everyone who has come before. And three months later, a letter arrives: the one you wrote to yourself.

Next step

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